Brittany Allen, Author at Brittany Lee Allen

How I Battled Lust as a Single Woman

Many married women continued to believe a husband would fix them and have since found out they were wrong.

I haven’t shied away from sharing my failures before Christ saved me and even after. Not in a spirit of boasting but rather in humility, recognizing where I came from. If you’ve been around me for long, you probably know I was held captive to lust and sexual immorality for many years. By God’s grace […]

Why You Shouldn’t Tell Your Boyfriend Everything

Don’t take steps toward intimacy before the time is right. It will either leave you very frustrated from stirring up desires before an appropriate time, or leave you deeply sorrowful from giving in to temptation. Neither of these scenarios are healthy in a godly relationship.

There are men other than my Husband who know me deeply. They know about my childhood, my struggles and dreams. I wish I could say I’m talking about my Dad and another Father figure but unfortunately, that isn’t the case. They were my previous boyfriends. As a teen, I was on a long search to […]

Love Your Boyfriend More Than Your Sexual Desires

The point of striving for purity is not just some personal goal. Rather, true purity arises in the heart of the Christian who longs to love God with every aspect of their being: body, soul and mind. If we truly put him first, we will want to follow his will for sex in our lives.

If we have sex we will not get married. That’s what we told ourselves. This isn’t the case for everyone. Many Christian couples have fallen into sin, repented and are happily married. But we knew that wouldn’t be the case for us. Like most Christians, we wanted so badly to honor God with our dating […]

A Heart Prone to Discontentment

Our hearts are so prone to discontentment. But truly, the Lord is all we need.

For 3 years, I have waited. Sometimes, I waited well. Other times…not so much. I’ve had dreams and desires for ministry that have gone unfulfilled and my heart has many times been frustrated. I wanted to devote time to writing and ministry. But I had to work. I wanted to be a homemaker and actually […]

When God Shakes His Church

Our world seems to be unraveling before our eyes. ISIS is sending their young children to be suicide bombers. Babies are ripped from their mother’s womb so their parents can pursue all their selfish longings. The best America could come up with for presidential candidates are a far cry from what the founding Fathers envisioned, […]

With Gossip On Our Lips

Gossip is sneaky. One minute you're being helpful and the next you've gone and spilled the beans. We think it's okay as long as we're just vague enough. We aren't telling the whole story, but if a couple questions are asked the listener is sure to figure it out. After all, we can't lie so we have to answer them right?

I gossiped last night. There, I said it. I didn’t mean for it to happen. It just kinda poured out of my mouth like poison. Gossip is sneaky. One minute you’re being helpful and the next you’ve gone and spilled the beans. We think it’s okay as long as we’re just vague enough. We aren’t […]

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